But it did so deeply.

I don’t like you as a person nor do I like anything about you…but when you say I’m a bad mom that tears me apart.

That’s the worst insult you could give to a woman with a child. I AM a good mom. 

You will never be a mother so you don’t know how difficult it can be. 

I have never neglected my child, hit my child, or made her feel unloved. She is my world. I have sacrificed sleep, my social life, friends, men, dating, all for my daughter. Before I do anything I always think about what would be best for her. 

You’re just a fleck of shit that is in my presence on a day to day basis. You always try to degrade me, yet I’m not the 25 year old that doesn’t do anything with her life.

I am not spineless and ready to give up on anything that seems a slight challenge to me. I face my fears and conquer my challenges in a reasonable amount of time. I am not stuck nor am I lost…YOU are lost and hopeless. 

I feel sorry for you that you have to insult someone to build yourself up. That speaks a tremendous amount of your character.

You may think I’m a “bad mom”, but YOU are a terrible person. 

& I can lay my head down at night and rest assured that I am TRYING & I am doing my best. I have a purpose, I have someone that loves me (my daughter), and I would do anything to make our lives better. Including leaving you out of the scenario.

You are not a priority in our lives, remember that the next time you try to degrade my parenting skills, hurt me, use me, or talk trash. You’re disposable, just like everyone else.